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2009-03-29 12:20 pm

Update on Buddy

Seems Buddy is doing better today. He's eating and drinking again and having no bathroom problems... That we can see anyway. Also he's cuddly again. It seems like he just had some sort of 24-hour bug. Or it was something he ate. We're not sure. I'm just glad I don't have to clean up any more accidents. If you know what I mean.

We'll probably still have to take him to the vets to have his chin looked at, but at least it won't be the emergency vets where they over charge you.

Also, thanks for your concern for Buddy. He appreciated it :)

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2009-03-28 03:03 pm
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My Buddy and Me.....

So you probably don't want to know this, but Buddy is having diarreah. I know, that's a little TMI. But it's kind of horrible. He pottied all over the back room where his litter box is. Not sure why he didn't do it *IN* the box, but nonetheless. It really sucks b/c I have to check his nether region every time he comes out of the litter box room and then sometimes I have to wipe it. Can you say EW?

Anyway. It's not just upsetting b/c it's gross. It's also upsetting b/c I know my mom won't put up with a poop-disabled cat. She also won't put up with a cat that has to go to the vet's every other week. I'm hoping he just has a food allergy or something and it can be fixed easily. We were already going to make an appointment with the vet b/c of his chin. It looks like he has some kind of rash or something. His chin used to be white with a dot of gold. Now it's turning black from dried blood. He just keeps scratching it, altho I've never really seen him do it and it gets all scabby and bloody. I try to wash it, but it's all stuck in his fur. Plus, washing it isn't going to make it better. To make it better, we need to know what it is and how to treat it. I'm just hoping it's not mange (sp?). It's something that dogs get but I don't know about cats. Mange is actually mites. I guess most dogs (and cats?) have them, but it only becomes a probably if they have an immune issue or there are too many.

My point is: I don't want to get rid of my cat. Of course all of this doesn't mean that that will happen. But it could and it scares me. I don't need to lose another cat right now. Two in just a couple of months? No thank you.

*sigh* this sucks.

Also, my mom left me home with her baby-sitting charge. She went to the pharmacy and then she's going grocery shopping. Anyway, I guess I'm going to go back to typing up Puppy Love. So yeah..... That's my life in a nutshell right now.

Peace. Love. Fingers Crossed.
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2009-03-13 01:01 am

Here's an update on my life

So today I went to the cholesterol clinic. My blood tests were good, only one thing went up but just a little so it's in the right range still. Also, I've lost eight pounds since December or did she say May? Anyway January 2008 or maybe the December before, I was 181lbs. I am now 168lbs. So that made me feel pretty good.

Speaking of feeling good...... Wednesday my mom & I got haircuts. My cut was based off a style Ashlee Simpson had when her hair was black and all blunt edges and all razored. My hair looks awesome and I can't wait to show you.

Also, I didn't win any of the awards I was nominated for in the Hanfic Genre Challenge. I was nominated five times but didn't win any. :/

I also think Buddy needs a friend. He's the biggest trouble maker lately. He's jumping on the table and eating the plants and playing with my mom's knitting. First I thought it was because he was hungry. He usually starts acting out when he's hungry; chewing on things and playing with things he's not supposed to play with. He has his own toys he can play with. Maybe I need to get some chew toys for him. Or just more toys in general. I don't know. Maybe he just needs a friend. But my mom definitely will not go for that. But Buddy was used to living with ya know ten other cats. Now he's just got me 24/7 and my mom after work. I don't know.

I haven't quite decided between a refurbished laptop or a brand new netbook. I've found some good prices on both. But seriously, we also need to get a wireless router. I've found some good prices on those too. I found one laptop that once I cash my bday check from my grammie with all I've saved my mom would only have to pay...... Let me check the calculater. The guesstimate is $145 and trust me, she has the money. But then again we're trying to save up for a house. Also that 145 includes the wireless router. So it's not that bad. I think I might want a refurbished laptop instead of a new netbook b/c I want a bigger screen. But who knows. We'll just have to wait and see. I just hope it doesn't take too much longer. My mom always gets nervous with big ticket items where as I if it's something I've wanted for years as soon as I get the money and find the specific one I want, I buy it. I've come to this point in my life where I want to have nice things and I sometimes have money for those things so I buy them. What's wrong with that? I won't buy anything for a whole month just so I can have $80 to put towards saving for a laptop or netbook.

Oy vey it's late. I need to get to bed. I'll talk to u in the morning.

P.S. I'm going to see my PCP tomorrow... er today really. I'm going to try the Chantix again. A carton of my cheap brand of cigarettes went from $37.49 to $44.59 in, like, two weeks. Srsly. I really can't afford to smoke anymore. I told my mom I was never going to smoke a cig that costs over 40 bucks. I think it's funny that the day before I go to my dr to ask for help with my nicotine addiction that they finally went over $40

Goodnight for real now
XoXo

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2009-03-11 09:41 am

Busy, busy, busy beeeeeee

I am sooooooo frickin' busy the rest of this week. I have an appointment every day. And today I have two. Here is a list of this week's appointments.

TODAY
Case-management with Jen
Haircuts by Lindsey

TOMORROW
Cholesterol Clinic

FRIDAY
6 month check-up with PCP

And somewhere in there Jaci wants to do something b/c we didn't see Fly Upright Kite on Sunday.

Oh my god! Carol Burnette has a Barbie Doll!!!! It's freaking awesome!

Anyway.

So I'm a busy beaver the next few days. So much so that I'll probably just want to sit on my ass all weekend and never move. But that isn't too unusal anyway.

Also, the awards for the HGC are being announced on Friday. I'm excited. And I'm not at all ashamed to say that I did indeed vote for myself. Today is the last day to vote, btw!!!! So vote for COLLIDE! Here's the link:

Hanfic Genre Challenge Voting!

So that's it for now I guess. Not much else to say. Talk to u later.

Hugs n stuff

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2009-02-20 01:30 pm

Buddy Update

WOOOOHOOOOO!!!!!!!

Buddy is doing sooooooo much better!

At noon time I gave Buddy a steam. He was very good about it. He sat in my lap the whole time and never once cried. When we were done, I put down some hard food for him while I got his wet food ready. He actually ate some hard food, which was very exciting. Then as I was mashing up his wet food, he came over and sat at my feet. He could obviously smell it. When I set the plate on the floor he again ate. He didn't eat a whole lot between the two, but it was more than what he's eaten in the past few days. He hasn't gone back to sleep yet. He just moved next to me on the couch and is grooming. He also sounds like he's breathing better while grooming. I'm very excited because this means he won't have to go to the vet's today. But my mom might call them just to let them know he's doing so much better.

I guess I won't be calling him "Snuffy" much longer. :D I can't help being so happy for my little Buddy.

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2009-02-20 12:12 am

Life in General

So Buddy isn't really eating or drinking. The only time we can get him to do any of it is after doing a 15 minute steam treatment in the bathroom. Also the vet told us we should probably get Buddy a vaporizer. Things are so weird. I'm just scared that his upper respitory thing has turned into pneumona or something. That maybe he'll have the same fate as the Bitch Kitty, the one who came before Buddy. I'm kind of scared because my mom said no more pets after Buddy, he has cost us too much $$$. Seriously, I want a dog next. One that isn't ever sick. But that won't happen because we always wind up with the sickly ones.

As for writing, I've posted chapter four of my Hanfic Genre Challenge story. I've also started on chapter five, which I hope to have up tomorrow some time. And then it'll be on to six. That should be up before the deadline. Plus, I don't think I have a whole lot more to write but maybe I'm wrong. I dunno. I want to at least be qualified to be voted upon.

Also, I'm still working on Mike's birthday scarf. I worked on it between writing and posting today. But at least I got that baby blanket done. And my knitting project that I'll be doing after Mike's scarf is this really awesome patch-work like baby blanket. I have to make two of them. My sister's having twins and I've got plenty of time to work on them. Especially once I get Mike's scarf done and finish my hgc fic.

I have almost enough $$$ to buy the laptop at Staples that's seriously on sale this week. If you include the wireless router with the computer, I have enough that my mom will only have to pay 150$ at the most. And if I somehow miraculously [sp?] get my Xmas money AND my birthday money from my dad, then my mom would on end up paying, like, 20$. I'm not holding my breath about my dad. But whatever.

I'm either going to sleep right now orrrr I'm going to write. But I'm not sure if I could stay awake for that.

So goodnight everyone ♥

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2009-02-18 01:18 pm

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Buddy just took a steam with me.

I hang my bathrobe on the over-the-door towel rack when I shower. Buddy hid behind my bathrobe the whole time with just his head sticking out, even though I had brought his blankie in with us. He behaved very well. He only started crying five seconds before I was to get out.

Once I let him out of the bathroom, he kept coming and going, visiting me while I dried off. Now he's laying on the back of the couch looking out the window. I think the steaming helped. He sneezed a few times after he was let out of the bathroom. But I can still hear the snot in his nose. Oh well. At least he got two steams today. One with my mom and one with me. Maybe later tonight I'll sit with him in the bathroom with the shower running on hot, hot, hot. Get it nice and steamy in there.

Okay, now I'm actually going to write.

Ciao.

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2009-02-16 11:34 am

Update on Buddy

So Buddy has been taking his medicine twice a day since, I think, Wednesday. He's actually very good at taking it. He likes his antibiotics. I think he likes the taste. It smells good at least. But he doesn't really like his eye ointment aka his eye goop. Although his eyes aren't bright red anymore. I think he's doing much better. He's a little more active and isn't sleeping as much during the day. I really believe he's feeling better. And his sneezes aren't so snotty anymore so it seems his upper respitory thing is clearing up too. I'm very happy with this.

On another note, I might get a laptop today. Not quite sure though. There's a good deal on a Compaq Presario at Staples. I think it's the only laptop I've seen with 4 gb of RAM that's under five or six hundred dollars. But it's a wicked sale. You get $250 off instantly and a $30 easy rebate. In the end with all the money off, it's only about $400, which is nice. I think I have about half of that and my mom told me that she'd pay whatever was left over. So I'm crossing my fingers.

Also, I need to get writig on my hgc fic. And I think that's all for now. Hope everyone's having a good Presidents Day.

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2009-02-11 05:54 pm

My poor baby!

Poor Buddy. He went to the vet's at 4 o'clock and came back home with a diagnosis of pink eye, an upper respitory infection, gingivitis with a loose tooth and overly waxy ears. He has to have liquid antibiotics twice a day and eye ointment twice a day. Hopefully, if it's not viral, his eyes and sniffles will be gone in seven days.

Pray for him.

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2009-02-05 12:49 am

Happy Birthday to Me! ( days early )

So, this week has been very exciting so far. On Monday my dad has his replacement hip replaced. No, I'm not kidding. The hip they put in him last year was recalled so they had to put a new one in. But my younger sister Vanessa — Teeny Tiny Andrew's mom — says Dad's doing good and he should be home in a few days.

Vanessa also told me that the day my dad had his surgery was the day our new niece Makenzie Marie was born.

Also found out from my aunt that my older sister Jessica has heard both heartbeats. Yes, both. She's having twins.

Also, I get to see Jaci's new apartment on Friday. If she has the money, she's going to take me out for dinner for my bday. It'll be fun. Maybe I'll get to see Dora the Doggie.

Then on Saturday my mom and I are going to petco or petsmart to get ready for a new kitty. Then we'll go to the Concord-Merrimack County SPCA to adopt a new cat. I have my eye on a little cutie named Buddy. But we don't know if we'll get him that day since they have to approve our adoption application. But here's a picture of my little Buddy.

Ain't he cute? He reminds me of my sister's cats.

Okay, on to Saturday night. The whole gang is going out to Newicks for my birthday dinner on my actual bday. I can get my meal free or up to ten dollars off. It's our new family tradition.......well since last year when Newicks came to Concord.

Anyway that's my update on my Birthday Week.

Love always,
amanda: jaclyn's twin sister ♥

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2009-02-03 03:53 pm

I'M AN AUNTY..... again

So my brother's fiancé had a baby girl yesterday. Her name is Mackenzie Marie. That makes me an aunt 5 times over. Then in late August / early September I'll be an aunt twice b/c my sister is having twins. My family is getting huge!

Also, my dad had his recalled hip replacement taken out yesterday and a new one put in. Hopefully it won't be another one that gets recalled. This is his second hip replacement in less than a year. He's old and has a list of health problems the length of my arm. I really hope this works out for him.

Well, that is all for now. I'll talk to you later.

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2008-12-11 07:01 pm
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Day 3 of the Happiness Meme

So here is what made me happy today: the results of my cholesterol tests. Here is how I was graded.....


Previous Cholesterol Level:   222
Current Cholesterol Level:     173
GOAL: below 200

Previous HDL Level:     57
Current HDL Level:       47
GOAL: above 50

Previous LDL Level:   143
Current LDL Level:     103
GOAL: below 130

Previous Triglyceride Level: 109
Current Triglyceride Level:    117
GOAL: below 150


So, yeah, basically I'm doing AWESOME! And the biggest change I've made since my last blood test was taking 2000 mgs of plant stanols / sterols every day with dinner via Promise Super Shots. I'm really happy with myself and my dr's think I'm doing awesome. They also think the weight-loss is huge and that it probably has to do with the new psych med I'm taking. Which is working really well on my mood so it's like two birds with one stone! woohoo!

I'm definitely a happy girl today. =D
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2008-12-10 01:40 pm
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The proof is in the shirt.....

So you know how I can fit into my skinny jeans again? Well, you're never going to believe this! I just showered and got dressed and put on my Hanson Walk shirt. It's the black and red-ish / orange-ish one. When I bought it in April @ the Hampton Beach show, I had to keep it at my waist (above my ass) even tho it's one of those long-ish shirts b/c it was too tight if I put it down all the way. Well, when I put it on just now it hangs straight down! It goes over my butt without being too tight! It's practically like the shortest mini-dress ever!!! I'm so fucking excited! I actually had to call my mom at work and tell her. haha

But I'm so mad b/c my camera's dead and I can't take an awesome picture. My mom didn't really look for my other battery last night even though I asked. But that's okay. I'm not sure if I even have one b/c the one in my camera might be the extra one I brought on vacation in August. *shrug* I don't even know.

But anyway! I'm freaking excited and I thought you all should know. I want to write a really in-depth post on my weight struggles, but my case manager will be here in about 20 minutes and that's really not enough time.

Hugs n Love to FListers!
amanda: jaclyn's (skinny) twin sister
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2008-12-08 07:24 pm
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The proof is in the pants.....

This time last year I weighed 181 pounds.

Today I weighed myself and I was 170 pounds.

I'm wearing my skinny jeans.

I'm quite happy =)
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2008-10-30 02:59 pm

O-N-E-L-E-S-S

By 4 o'clock today I will be One Less. I'm getting my third and final Gardisil shot. Should be painful. Srsly, it's one shot that burns. But in the end it's worth it and the pain goes away after a while. So it's not too bad.


There was just a loud knock on my door. I went to answer it and found my neighbors. A week or two ago, we, along with Jeff, bought raffle tickets from the kids. Today was the drawing. We didn't win anything. But apparently Jeff won a huge-ass pumpkin (that's starting to rot) and a gift certificate to Bread & Chocolate. I don't know if he'll want the b&c gift certificate b/c he's trying to lose weight and srsly, getting something from a place called Bread & Chocolate does not go with dieting. Maybe he'll let us keep it. I dunno. Pretty sure he won't want the pumpkin. Oh well. But I just called him at work and left him a message. He's probably at break right now.

Also, I'm going to do NaNoWriMo, but on an unofficial basis.

[interruption]: Jeff just called. He was like, What'd I win?! And I told him. He made me look to see how much the gift certificate is for and get this, it's $25!!!! Lucky sonuvabitch.
[/end interruption]

So anyway, back to my NaNoWriMo news. I'm doing it unofficially on my own. I'm not going to sign up for it. I just want to get a feel for it and maybe I'll actually enter it for real next year. But last night when I finished my Prompt 404 fic, I realized what I'm going to write. A while ago, I started writing a story called Strangers to Soulmates. In my head it wasn't a hanfic. But when I put it on paper and posted all of, what? Two chapters, I turned it into a Zaylor. I've decided that for unofficial-nanowrimo I'm going to post it as it started in my head; as a het fic with the main male character being this guy from a band I know that broke up last April. But really, the break up has nothing to do with the story. I figure since I'm not actually signing up for NaNoWriMo that I can just continue with a story I started instead of writing a brand new one. But it'll be sort of brand new considering I'm changing a bunch of it. But it's not like I have a whole hell of a lot written anyway. We'll see what happens.

Hope you're all having a good day :)

Love,
amanda: jaclyn's twin sister
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2008-10-22 12:06 pm

you blur the lines every time that we kiss

I don't feel good. I feel kind of pukey. I'm debating on whether or not I should call my casemanager and cancel today's regularly sheduled appointment. o.O

On another note, my mom and I got our hairs did last night. We're pretty now. Here's a pic.




Lindsay made it all curly-pretty. And I'm loving the color.


[p.s.] I'm canceling my appointment.

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2008-10-16 02:58 pm

10/16/08

I have to go to GI today at 4:00pm. Then I'm supposed to go to the neighbors' for Thursday Night Dinner. But I'm so tired and I kind of just want to burrow under the covers and not come out. I'm also supposed to call next door to tell them I'll be late, but I don't want to. I don't really even want to go over tonight, so I really don't want to call and be all like, I'm not coming over. I'm having a sucky day. It's all rainy and gloomy out and that's how it's making me feel.

Someone rescue me.
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2008-09-22 12:57 pm

Achy Breaky Heart

Joyce had a heart attack yesterday morning. Lynn took her to the hospital and they put in two stints. Apparently she was doing good in the ICU. As far as we know, she'll be moving into her own room today and I'll be able to go see her. Yesterday it was said that she would probably only have to stay in the hospital 4 days. But knowing Joyce, she was probably demanding to go home as soon as she was out of surgery. lol. She's tough.



[p.s.] I love when my mom writes yougert on the shopping list :)~



Recent iTunes Purchases

1). Crush by David Archuleta
2). Get Back by Demi Lovato
3). So What by Pink

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2008-08-26 10:01 pm
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Did you miss me?

So I am here. At home. After my 3 day / 2 night excursion to Lincoln, NH to go to Six Gun City and Clark's Trading Post. The trained bears rocked my effing socks to the end of the world. Whereas Six Gun City had 3 goats, 5 mini ponies and some Norweign Fjord horses. But the goats were what definitely had me angered. One of them looked okay while the other two looked emaciated. Jeff told me to call the New Hampshire Humane Society and make a complaint against them. But I'm pretty sure NH isn't as cool when it comes to Humane Law Enforcement as other places like NY are. Like the Animal Cops I see on Animal Planet. New Hampshire is just too sucky for that. I mean, we're allowed to beat our children and even use implements as long as we don't leave excessive marks and it's LEGAL.

Okay, so like you might have guessed, I'm bitchy. I have no clue why. I think it may be just me being over-tired or something. My feet and legs hurt from the 12+ hours of walking I've done in the past two days. And the 1 - 2 hours of swimming a day the past two days. Plus, my arm just started hurting about an hour ago. My mom says it's a pulled muscle but to me it feels like a pinched nerve. I've had both. Plus I've had enough pulled muscles in my life to know that it is NOT just a pulled muscle. It's probably nothing. But I'm bitchy and have cried in a second's notice two different times tonight for reasons that are so stupid.

1). Not enough fluff for a sandwich. Although my mom says there's enough, there is not enough for my liking.
2). Mom said we should watch such-an-such a show and I was all, Why can't we just watch Mystery Diagnosis and she was all go ahead if you want to and then I cried.


And for your information, I am NOT pms'ing. I've already done that this month. But this is the first time I've been home since Sunday and I'm not a person to really do that. Hence why I think it's over-tiredness. Plus, my Crohn's Disease / Colitis is being a bitch. I can't eat ANYTHING without having to rush to a rest room right after. It made eating out this weekend almost a hassle and I almost just wanted to take some imodium b/c the last time I took just half a dose I didn't have a bowel movement for a week. And for this vacation that sounded pretty good.

I'm off to take an Adavant to see if maybe it'll help.
I'm so fucked up right now and I don't know why.
It just hit me BAM! this afternoon.
And maybe it's partly b/c I feel like I was rushed out of the gift shop at Clark's and ended up not buying all 3 Limited Edition 80th Anniversary Trained Bears stuffies, which if I bought altogether at once I could have gotten 6$ off and a FREE tote bag. Plus I really wanted a ring of some sort. But I only ended up with Soggle the Bear who I've nicknamed "Soggy" and a necklace where the bear charm is made from some kind of polished natural stone. And I also wanted a hoodie. And I'm pretty upset b/c only 1200 stuffies of Soggy and her two brother bears were ever made. hullow LIMITED edition. Soggle, Woggle, and Toggle were orphaned triplet cubs that the Clark raised and were their first trained bears.

the end.
for real.
my alarm's going off.
time for meds.

bye.

p.s. - there will be a better rendition of my vacation when I'm in a better mood. Plus: PICTURES!!!

goodbye.srsly.for.real.

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2008-08-22 02:01 pm

678 is the new Olympic gold medal challenge

678 is how many words I have written for the [profile] words_we_wroteTTA track challenge. At least 822 words to go.

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Diagnosed by a Doctor

So, I went to see Dr Levey yesterday (and I totally spelled his name wrong in the other post) He said I definitely need a root-canal. But he said that this one would be, like, 100x easier than the last one. The last one was so horrible b/c the infection was just completely out of control. The nerve in my tooth had died so I wasn't in any pain and didn't notice the infection until my gums and face were wicked swollen. And apparently, the same thing has happened this time: the nerve in my tooth is dead. Hence no pain.

Earlier in the year, after my first root-canal, I couldn't wear my nightguard b/c of my new crown. Then my front tooth, the one that's getting the root-canal, was soooo painful. The dentist said it was just b/c I was grinding so badly without my nightguard. So they made me a brand new one for free b/c I hadn't even had my old one for a year yet and those suckers are, like, 400$. Needless to say, my tooth stopped hurting once I got my new nightguard. Everyone thought it was hunky-dory. But now my mom and I are wondering if that wasn't b/c of grinding. Maybe that's when my tooth was infected for the first time. Usually the nerve in your tooth doesn't just die right off the bat like that unless there's some sort of trauma and Dr Levey doesn't think the fork did it. So now we wonder. Not that it matters any. It doesn't change anything. But Dr Levey said I don't have to have it done until I come back from vacation next week. I have an appointment scheduled for 9:45am on Thursday. Oh joy. But he guarantees it'll be so much better than the last time. Plus, b/c the infection's so small it's not going to be as much work so it's only going to cost us $840!!!! I'm so happy with that. But we'll have to see how much we gotta pay my regular dentist for the after-work.

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Self-Diagnosis

For years and years and years, showering has made me itchy. The warmer the water, the worse the itching. The other day I was in the shower and just as I was finishing up my shoulders and the top of my thighs started to itch something fierce. By the time I was all dried off and dressed, my forearms itched horribly too. I finally decided to jump on-line and try to look up my symptoms. Seems a ton of people have this problem and it's an actual medical issue. It's called Cholinergic Urticaria, a subcategory of physical urticaria. Basically, it's a skin rash brought on by a hypersensitive reaction to body heat. Symptoms can be brought on by anything that increases your body temp, i.e.: exercise, heat from the sun, saunas, hot showers, and even alcohol! All this time I thought some forms of alcohol made me itch b/c of the sulfites in it. And get this: it's more common in people who have other atopic conditions such as eczema and asthma, both of which I have. So basically the next time I go see my PCP I'm going to ask her about it. But it all makes total sense now. It's amazing.

Whenever my entire body itches and I'd tell my mom she'd tell me to take a shower b/c I was probably itching from sweat and dirt. I've always told my mom that showering doesn't help. And now we know it doesn't. Unless it's a shower of icecubes. This is kind of amazing actually. I'm not itching just a little bit and then essentially making mountains out of mole hills. It really is that bad. It's not just all in my head. Last night my mom was like, you have so many other problems, why not this too? haha But now it finally makes sense and it gives me some semblence of relief.